Who still sends Christmas cards? The topic of the article caught my eye since I wish more people would stop saying they are too busy and take the time to send a card.
I found myself nodding at the descriptions of those who take the time to send greetings. The people from my father’s church would match the following definition:
Chapter 3: The Thoughtful Touch: Expressing Sincere Care
For some, Christmas cards are a tangible expression of care. They believe that taking the time to choose a card, write a heartfelt message, and send it snail mail style, is a thoughtful gesture. It’s like a warm holiday hug that arrives right at your doorstep.
Describing a card like a warm holiday hug fit our New Years Day visit with my father. When the conversation lagged and he kept reminding us of his constant fatigue, I walked back to his room to grab some tasty leftover Christmas candy and the pile of Christmas cards on his side table.
” Dad, I can’t believe you received all these cards!” As we started to read and admire each one, his interest peaked.
“Look at this one!’ I pointed out. ” I read each name. Some names he remembered and others he had to think about for awhile.
“Wow! There are so many!” I marveled. “Let’s guess how many you received”. He smiled at my juvenile idea.
“I think there are 30, ” he answered. When I estimated 34 which ended up being the exact amount, he quickly replied, ” You counted them while we read them”. His spirited answer reminded me of how he always enjoys any mathematical activity.
Because the piano seemed to be calling me, we ended the visit with me playing various Christmas songs. He remembered some tunes but not many.
As 2024 begins, I cannot help but wonder: how many more Christmases will we have with my father? Nevertheless, I left with a feeling of gratitude that the Michigan roads were clear and we had the opportunity to see him once again.
A Journey Worth Remembering 