Another Birthday Celebration

It’s hard to believe that my father is turning 90 years old next month. Last year at this time, we celebrated his 89th because we weren’t quite sure what another year would bring, but here we are!

Planning a birthday party from another state is different but possible. His home church is where the festivities will take place. It will be a two-hour open house with cake, ice cream, and beverages.

How does one actually celebrate 90 years of life? Music seems proper, but his hearing is so bad that he won’t be able to understand it. I would think that the best thing would be anything visual that helps him remember the last 90 years. Pictures, memorabilia, his favorite color orange? I don’t know, but I hope people make an effort to help us celebrate.

As I look back on this journey, I never thought we would make it to this point. His breakdown, after my mother died, left me wondering how long he would be with us. Now look- 90 years!

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This blog includes a year of adventure where I left my teaching position to pursue dreams , renew friendships, and care of my aging parents.It includes details about my aging father who lives in a memory care home. I recently became a grandma and will be taking care of little Julia starting in October.

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