September 11

How does one develop patriotism for your country? Is it natural? Is it parent taught?

My parents, Dutch immigrants, definitely instilled patriotism in our family from a young age. My father, a Dutch citizen, then a Canadian, studied hard to pass the United States Citizens Test. Our family stood proudly as we attended his naturalization ceremony followed by a family party.

The American flag, prominently placed in the front of the house, stood as a reminder of their devotion to our country, but it didn’t stop there. My mother often wore patriotic clothing at holidays or just on a regular day. Two flags hung from the car windows. American stickers could be seen on the bumper. They frequently donated to Wounded Warriors. Sometimes, I marveled at how two people, born in a different country, could have such a strong allegiance to a country where they were not raised.

As I reflected upon the events of September 11 and shared the details of it with my students, I realized that I was also honoring my mother by wearing patriotic clothing. Another item to add to my list– #13- wear patriotic clothing- done. It’s another way, rather somber, to remember my mother this September.